My First Tattoo: Commemorating 29 Years

Many people, upon seeing my new tattoo have asked: "Was this a milestone birthday?" and the answer is funny. I mean, it's yes and no. Most people would probably not consider 29 to be a big year to celebrate, but for me, given the year I've had...making it was a challenge to say the least.

One major symbol I've used to get through all the difficult moments was that of the lotus. I studied Buddhism in college (and even went vegetarian for a time) and the imagery of the lotus rising through the swamp to bloom strong and beautiful above the water reminded me that I, too, can rise above whatever circumstances I'm faced with. Look at this beautiful example of the lotus in nature:

I love how the petals are at once delicate and strong. I also love that they hold symbolism in many belief systems, as I consider myself a seeker in the religious sense.

So when I decided I wanted a tattoo, I knew I needed to consider a few important things. The 'what' was obvious. I wanted a lotus. The where was the tricky part. For me, if you are going to get ink, show it. I wanted a place that was visible, yet somehow personal. In the end, I chose my wrist. I can cover it with a watch or bracelet if I want to keep it private, but if not, it is obviously visible. I found the following as base image for my design. I loved the water lines and the stem, showing the flower rising above the water.


I chose to get my tattoo done by Kike at Brightside Boutique and Studio in Federal Hill. Kike came highly recommended by some friends, so on my birthday, 10/20, I took my design to him and told him to be creative. Here is what he came up with:

He made the flower larger and fuller, 'in full bloom' as he put it. He also used dots to create some shading and add depth. In the end, it was exactly what I was looking for - a very basic lotus, with minimal detailing...just enough to give it a vintage, classic look. So we went for it. No color, because the lotus itself represents me...my skin, my life story.

So there it is!!


Best birthday gift to myself EVER! And every time I look at my wrist I think 'I can do this.' Totally worth it!









Do you have any ink? What does it mean to you?